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How To Lower Your Standards as a Perfectionist
Hannah Alderete Hannah Alderete

How To Lower Your Standards as a Perfectionist

Perfectionism can be an overwhelming burden that affects various aspects of our lives. As an underlying component of anxiety disorders, perfectionism stems from the desire to avoid discomfort by maintaining impossibly high standards. The rigidity and inflexibility that come with perfectionism can hinder adaptability and acceptance of our own limitations. Grieving the life we thought we should be living and challenging the ego's attachment to productivity and expectations is crucial in overcoming perfectionism. By embracing imperfection and realizing that being "good enough" is part of being human, we can cultivate flexibility and cope with the challenges of life more effectively. Explore thought-provoking questions to identify how perfectionism burdens your life, envision a scaled-down approach, and discover the potential for personal growth and improved relationships. Embrace imperfection as an opportunity for growth and explore a life that is free from the shackles of perfectionism.

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